Today we’d like to introduce you to Darrell Williams.
I have been involved in life coaching for many years and help clients discern ways to restore and enrich personal and professional relationships. I am a keynote speaker and workshop facilitator who provides clients with expertise in leadership, relationships, and purpose. I bring extensive experience as a master-certified life coach and a member of the Federal Coaching Network.
My leadership background includes 30 years of federal service, highlighted by my selection as a White House Communications Agency All-Star and Senior Manager of the Year. Additionally, I am a Defense Information Systems Agency Outstanding Mentor and Human Resources Team Lead of the Year. My leadership coaching is based on a stellar 20-year military career, where I traveled as an Operations and Vice Presidential Communications Officer, leading over 500 White House missions. Following the tragedies of September 11, 2001, I was selected as 1 of 5 key leaders, from 30 senior managers, to direct emergency action communications for the Vice President of the United States, including duties as an Air Force Two Command Representative.
In addition to being a master certified life coach, I am a certified facilitator who trained senior managers at the White House Communications Agency Training Academy to travel as Vice Presidential Team Leads. Serving as the primary contact for the traveling White House Staff while simultaneously training mid-level managers to travel as Presidential Operations Team Leads.
I hold a Bachelor of Science in Management from National Louis University and an MBA from Strayer University. I have received numerous professional awards, including the Presidential Service Badge, Lacey B. Ivory Service Award, Roy Wilkins Renown Service Award, the National Louis University Reach Award, and the Strayer University Outstanding Alumni Award for my dedicated leadership in the community and Department of Defense. I am also a member of the White House Communications Agency Hall of Fame.
One struggle that shook me to my core was when my wife and I had to deal with the effects of not one but two miscarriages. This is something that many men do not discuss, but it is necessary to deal with our emotions and what we are going through. This cannot be easy because, in most instances, the attention seems to lean more toward the spouse, which is understandable. However, how does the husband provide comfort in the middle of his grief? In other words, as my Assistant Pastor would say, “who comforts the comforter?” What helped me during this most challenging time was listening to a lot of gospel music, reading lots of scripture, sharing with my wife how we were feeling, and allowing friends to speak encouragement into my life. Although it is difficult at the time, I can say that with the proper resources, life will get better, and you can become stronger after the challenge.
The challenges of running a business or ministry can be overwhelming. However, the bigger the obstacle, the greater the reward. It is essential to ask yourself what you should learn while going through this. Who can I reach out to for sound advice? Where should I turn next to get a handle on the situation? When is the best time to deal with each decision that I have to make? Why should I put my next steps in an appropriate order? Sometimes what we go through is not just about the result, it is also about the journey to move us from being busy, to evolving effectively.
Several things have helped me build my reputation within my market. One thing that helped was I identified a need within my community that required an answer. Some marriages were good, but there was an opportunity to help them become healthier. The other thing I did was become a level 2 certified coach through the Certified Life Coach Institute to show clients that I was an industry expert within my field, making clients more comfortable with utilizing our services. In addition to becoming certified, I partnered with established organizations, such as the church, that were known for helping others and not looking for a lot in return.
Another organization that I partnered with was Dr. Paul White and the Appreciation at Work Team. Throughout my career, the appreciation came naturally. Even though I didn’t know the specific language of appreciation identified by Dr. White, at that time, I made sure I took the time to get to know everyone I worked with, to learn about their stories and what they cared about. This enabled me to speak with each person in the way that affects them the most: genuine appreciation for who they are and what they do.” “At first, I was a little skeptical about the Appreciation at Work service because I thought, ‘what do I need this for? I’m already doing it.’ But when I read the book, I realized this was awesome. It is a simple, scientifically based process that you can use to scale appreciation across any organization. Once I saw the benefit of having a process, I took the training, and my wife is also certified.” As a keynote speaker, I ensure that I meet the needs of event planners and organizations while leaving the audience with a challenge that can help them grow personally, as well as help their organization. Some words that have been used to describe me as a speaker are eloquent in delivery and compelling in content, inspiring, passionate, and engaging, to list a few. As it relates to Coaching, I have found three things that have helped me with clients, particularly military members transitioning to civilian life.
We must realize when a Coach can be entrusted with a client’s secret fear or with anything else important. It allows the coaching relationship to grow and makes the client feel comfortable enough to answer questions that they believe will bring them closer to their ultimate goal and let them put together a plan they feel good about implementing. Building trust in the military is vital; without it, bonds cannot be formed, which can hinder any chance of individual connection and directly affect collective mission goals.
It is beneficial when a military member knows that I was a Veteran before we begin our coaching relationship. They feel more comfortable knowing they are working with someone who has walked through the same journey they are about to embark upon. This is vastly different from other civilian clients because military members form a brotherhood and sisterhood similar to first responders. However, during the initial discovery call or meeting, clients may feel connected to working with an honest coach about life challenges that led them to become a coach. For example, I remember sharing part of my transition story when I couldn’t find a job after retiring while supporting a wife and a 1-year-old. Their anxiety turned to laughter when I told them I would still do my morning routine for months, as if I was going to work, only to walk my wife to the car, kiss her, then go back into the house and start the job search all over again. It gave them hope that “this guy does know how I feel, and if he can get through it, maybe I can too.”
One advantage of working with Veterans is they expect me to be honest when it comes to the questions that I ask them and hold them accountable for an activity they were scheduled to complete. Although they are used to following direct orders, they need to understand why I don’t tell them what to do next. Instead, I ask questions that will help them identify the roadblocks and identify actions that will get them back on track to accomplish their goals.
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Favorite books that I would recommend are, but not in any particular order:
- The Servant by James C. Hunter
- Developing the Leader Within You by John Maxwell
- Good Leaders Ask Great Questions by John Maxwell
- What Got You Here, Won’t Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith
- Leading At a Higher Level by Ken Blanchard
- The Gold Standard by Mike Krzyzewski
- Make Your Bed by Admiral William H. McRaven (Ret.)
- Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek
- Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson, M.D.
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Defense Information Systems Agency, Strayer University, White House Military Office, NAACP