We recently had the chance to connect with Khadizah Amos and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Khadizah, thank you so much for taking time out of your busy day to share your story, experiences and insights with our readers. Let’s jump right in with an interesting one: What are you being called to do now, that you may have been afraid of before?
Honestly I believe I’m being called to help women come back home to themselves to their power, their softness, and their spirit. For me it’s about using my God given talent in fashion design and healing arts to create more than just beautiful pieces. I create experiences, rituals, and garments that remind women that they are the altar.
Whether it’s through custom lingerie, body jewelry, waist beads, or candles, everything I make is meant to feel intentional, sensual, and sacred. I want to help women embrace their divine femininity, feel sexy in their skin, and reconnect with their spirit on a deeper level. I’ve learned that self love is spiritual and we deserve to feel worthy, beautiful, and held every step of the way.
This calling is bigger than me it’s about creating spaces and tools that help women heal, remember who they are, and walk confidently in that truth.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Khadizah and even my name carries spiritual weight. After doing the inner work and diving into my roots I realized I was born to live up to it. My journey personally, spiritually, and creatively is all about embracing divine femininity and helping other women do the same.
I’m the founder of Kay Allure a sensual, sacred fashion brand that empowers women to feel confident, connected, and in command of their energy. I’m self taught I never followed the rules of fashion because my gift didn’t come from the system it came from spirit. My creations whether lingerie, chained body pieces, or self care are all rooted in feminine power, healing, and intention.
Right now I’m focused on a new chapter in my brand with powerful upcoming collections that represent different phases of womanhood. Bedroom to Boardroom is all about duality the woman who can run her business by day and reclaim her sensuality by night. It’s for the soft yet bold woman who owns every version of herself. Then there’s Wild Woman a collection for the untamed, unapologetic soul who’s DONE playing small. It’s raw, earthy, spiritual and it honors the freedom we often have to fight for.
Appreciate your sharing that. Let’s talk about your life, growing up and some of topics and learnings around that. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
As a child I believed I had to follow the rules do things by the book, move through life how society said was “right,” and dim parts of myself to fit in. I thought success had to look a certain way, and that imagination was just… pretend. But now I know better.
I’ve learned that my imagination was never “just” imagination it was vision it was spirit speaking to me early on. Everything I imagined for myself freedom, creativity, sensuality, luxury, peace wasn’t a fantasy it was a preview. It was real and it was mine to manifest.
Now I don’t believe in living by rules that weren’t written for me. I believe in living by energy, intuition, and alignment. I’ve unlearned a lot of what I was taught, and I honor what feels true instead. My path is mine and it’s guided by what I see in my mind, what I feel in my spirit, and what I create with intention.
What have been the defining wounds of your life—and how have you healed them?
Some of the deepest wounds I’ve carried came from people I loved hurting me, from moments where I felt abandoned, misunderstood, used, or unseen. Losing my grandfather was one of the biggest heartbreaks I felt a kind of emptiness I didn’t know how to explain. And for a while I carried that emptiness everywhere silently.
But I’ve learned to stop letting pain define me and instead I let it shape me. I’ve been charging it to the game and transmuting it. Instead of letting it break me I go within. I sit with it. I let it teach me something. I tap into my spirituality, talk to The Highest Power and pour that energy into my creativity. My pain lives in my designs, in my rituals, in the pieces I make that speak to other women’s healing too.
I realized healing isn’t always about “fixing” what’s broken it’s about accepting what is, feeling it fully, and turning it into power. That’s what I’ve done. I turned my wounds into my work. My story, my softness, and my strength all live in what I create.
I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. Is the public version of you the real you?
Yes and no. The public version of me is definitely a real PART of me but it’s not all of me. What you see is REAL the sensual energy, the softness, the creativity, the divine feminine essence. That’s who I am at my core. But there’s also a more sacred, quiet, deeply emotional side of me that not everyone gets access to. That part of me is reserved. It lives in my prayer, my rituals, my solitude, and the parts of my story I’m still healing through.
I’ve learned that just because something is real doesn’t mean it has to be FULLY exposed. So I share what aligns, what feels true in the moment. But the rest? That’s between me, The Highest Power, and my art. So yes the public version of me is real but it’s also curated, protected, and rooted in intention.
Before we go, we’d love to hear your thoughts on some longer-run, legacy type questions. Have you ever gotten what you wanted, and found it did not satisfy you?
HA! Yes….men! I thought I wanted certain relationships, certain types of love, and let’s just say… when I got it, it left me more drained than fulfilled. I realized I was chasing what I thought I needed, but it wasn’t rooted in truth, alignment, or even real connection.
It taught me that sometimes we want things from an unhealed place. And when you finally get it, it shows you exactly why you were meant to outgrow it. That lesson humbled me and healed me.
Now I want what feeds my spirit not just my ego. What aligns with my softness and my strength. That’s where real satisfaction lives and that’s what I’m calling in now.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://linktr.ee/kayallurellc?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwLJYRVleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpxETF__FiCvbulZDJrwKRQZVQyXpqCiT_H9asgwRj2_pwutHRFT4hZXrHtFm_aem_DF7dE8cJtgCcC8y7mGm74g
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